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7 Reasons to Say Good Morning to Your Co-Workers

good_morning.jpgJoe and Stacey work next to each other. They sit no more than five feet apart.  Even though they often arrive at work before the rest of the team, there's no communication between them.  

Only silence.

No morning greeting.  No acknowledgment that they are sharing the same office oxygen.

Saying 'good morning' should not be difficult. Yet, there's an increasing trend, almost a rebellion, against saying these two simple words to our co-workers.  It's not like we're required to salute, bow, kneel or curtsey.  Even a casual nod and mumble would be a lot better than the nothing that's now occurring at far too many work sites.

Don't become part of this alarming trend.  Experience the power of 'good morning.'

1) It maintains the standards of basic civility that we're all entitled to at work. Like 'please' and 'thank you', these two little words also go a long way towards improving communication and the overall atmosphere.

2) ’Good morning’ humanizes our co-workers.  We're real people, not just cogs in a pointlessly spinning wheel.  Show some humanity.

3) Provides for a more democratic environment, where everyone from the CEO to the mail clerk get to share in a friendly two-second exchange.  

4) It’s quick (and relatively painless).  If it is painful, you should probably be looking for a new job or scheduling time for some serious self-reflection.

5) It’s free.

6) Acknowledging the mere presence of someone is interpersonal communications 101.  Don’t YOU want to be noticed?  You might tell yourself otherwise, but at the end of the day, we all want to be recognized.

7) Saying ‘good morning’ makes things less awkward when you inevitably have to address your co-worker later in the day.  Start the day off on the right foot and avoid potential stressors later in the day.

According to Psychology Today, early risers are more agreeable than those who prefer the P.M. hours. Morning people also have more stable personalities and lower levels of aggression, supporting the idea that serotonin is involved in keeping both moods and circadian rhythms regular. Gives new meaning to "you snooze, you lose."
So if someone is avoiding saying hello in the A.M., you just got a sneak peek into their psychological world.

The start of each new day has a mystique about it. Think about it - most religions have morning services, a sunrise continues to serve as a generic symbol of hope, and a good cup of morning coffee is still (and rightly so) worshipped. Whether we like it or not, we all partake in some semblance of this daily routine, no matter who we are, what we do or where we work. Making the words 'good morning' part of that routine is part of the process to Make Work Better.  If we can't make even the most measly effort with our co-workers, it says a lot more about you than you might care to admit.

Posted on Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 07:42AM by Registered CommenterVictor Kipling in | Comments6 Comments

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Reader Comments (6)

Thank you for a wonderful article. It certainly hits close to home. Strike that. It certainly hits close to work. It's called common courtesy, and too many of my coworkers were not taught well by their mommies. Just say the words and we'll all be better off.
March 13, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterPuggy
I would make the same case for "good evening." Too many people leave without saying a peep. Why not start the day on a positive note and end it on a positive note. Saying "HELLO" is lowest common denominator type stuff. Just do it. It can't hurt.
March 13, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterVC Lady
I once had the displeasure to supervise a West Point grad, when he honchoed a 200 person field operation. This jerk never, ever said hello, good morning or any other civil-sounding greeting to his staff. Morale, of course, was in the toilet-and only started to improve when I transferred him elsewhere.
Leadership??? This guy had zilch!
March 13, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterVICTOR KIPLING
Good piece, Victor. And Puggy hit the mark. Most of what constitutes professionalism boils down to courtesy, decency, and respect, all things our parents ought to have taught us (and we ought to have learned). Instead there is a multi-million (billion?) dollar industry to teach us how to act at work and play nice together.
March 13, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChris M
Great post (and site - first time here) - but say "good morning" with meaning and gusto. Simply uttering the term means nothing unless you truly wish the person well and hope they have an enjoyable morning and day.

Ron
http://www.rondesi.com
Serving a hot cup of success for the modern workplace
March 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterRon
I hate to be Ms. Bah Humbug, but I don't care to hear that phrase in the morning. I'm not a morning person. When I do come across people in the morning I simply say "Hi" or "hello". The phrase "good morning" for me is a contradiction. I'd rather be sleeping. Plus I get irritated when people say that phrase with a lot of perk. Come talk to me after 10:30 or 11 a.m......with a "Hi"!
March 31, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJamila

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