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Wednesday
May132009

Do Not Follow the (Bad) Leader

Sometimes inspiration comes from the strangest places. As we drove in to work the other day, I jokingly told my wife that I would pull into her parking lot the wrong way (one way street) to save some time. She told me no, and I reminded her that some of the other employees did it all the time. She looked me in the eye and said, “We don’t follow bad leaders.”

Now, I don’t know if that has an impact on anyone else, but it gave me a little chill. What does it mean? I’m not exactly sure. I want to ponder the idea some and develop the idea, but the things that immediately sprang to mind are the times that we do follow bad leaders.

First, we follow them when we are forced into it. A manager can push and prod you to follow them, because they have the authority and position power to do so. Even when the person is a bad leader, we prefer not to be jobless and eating from a dumpster, so we follow them anyway. We rarely follow bad leaders for long without fear or intimidation, and those characteristics are certainly not good motivators. These situations usually end up with the bad leader being ousted by others (hopefully).

Second, we follow them when we don’t know any better. When you’re young, you follow the pack. Eventually your mother will ask, “If Johnny jumped off a bridge, would you do it, too?” We don’t know the difference between a good leader and a bad leader at that time, so we blindly follow anyone who stands out to us. Eventually we grow out of that and develop some discernment to help us make those sorts of choices. Once you’re old enough to get your own job, you should not be following someone simply because you don’t know any better.

This has been a sort of rambling, “out there” post. Something resonated in me when I heard the line about bad leaders, and I felt like I had to get it off my chest. I don’t believe in coincidences. This was a shot in the dark, but I think it means something to someone out there. Does anyone else have something to say about bad leaders and the people following them?


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Reader Comments (6)

You have a smart wife. You chose well!
May 13, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKrista Francis
Or she chose well... :-) Thanks for the comment, Krista!
May 13, 2009 | Registered CommenterBen Eubanks
It occurs to me that sometimes GOOD leaders are BAD people. Or, there are people (like your Pied Piper up there) who are charismatic and know how to inspire the faith and allegiance of others, but have nefarious intentions. Adolf Hitler is probably the most obvious and cliched example - he did get an entire country to follow him - but most would agree that he epitomizes evil.

And if that's true, then it might very well be true that some BAD leaders are GOOD people - perhaps there are people who we should be following, but we don't because they lack the charisma, mojo, "wow" factor, whatever you want to call it.

The discernment you speak of is, I think, not separating the bad leaders from the good ones - but rather taking the pool of good LEADERS and separating the bad PEOPLE from the good ones. And some people, sadly, never really get good at that - or else don't care to.
May 13, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterRed Seven
Personally, I am always more aggravated with the "bad" followers than the "bad" leaders. In some instances, the leader never asked to be the leader in the first place. I always want to know the source (background of the leader) and always beat to my own drum.
May 13, 2009 | Registered CommenterAndrew G.R.
One could say that most sheeple have a need, almost a hunger, to be led. In this context, complacency and pacivity rule the day. The herd instinct is hard-wired into the human psyche, so the number of independent thinkers are, and always will be, too rare a comodity. And every major human institution; from organized religion, to governments, corporate structures and the like, depend on obedience from their masses just as much as the masses depend on the structure...for everything from moral absolution to a paycheck.

Thanks, Ben for raising a very important issue...and to you, Red Seven, for pithy and on-point comments.
I will be writing about these issues in future columns, from the Cubicle Continuum!
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September 18, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterwidi

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