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14Aug2007

You Must Talk to Colleagues You Don't Know

silhouette.jpgIn the parking lot, break room, and bathroom you regularly ignore co-workers whose names you don't know.  Heck, you don't even know what department they work for.

Aside from the occasional head nod, you pass these folks by every day without acknowledging them.  Why?  Probably, like most people, you are scared to talk to strangers.  Except these aren't strangers.  These are people you share a common bond with.  Your checks are signed by the same blowhard.  Here are seven reasons to talk to your nameless colleagues.

- People are generally nice.  An engaging conversation where you learn something could be right around the corner.  You might even make a new friend.

- It passes time.  Didn't you learn anything from our inefficiency expert?  Flapping your lips will help the clock march on.

- Eliminates awkwardness.    There's a good chance you'll eventually have to deal with this person down the road.  Today's conversation paves the way for tomorrow.

- More contacts.  From janitors to interns, everyone's a potential LinkedIn connection.

- Exude confidence.  The person that takes the simple steps of flashing a smile or exchanging pleasantries emanates positive energy.  

- Practice rejection.  It's fear that often keeps us from being decent human beings.  What's the worst that can happen?  Your co-workers is curt?  Who cares.  Be the better person.

- Be approachable.  No one wants to be someone who people steer clear of.  Allow the lines of communication to be wide open.

There's got to be more then seven reasons.  Now it's your turn! Leave advice for your fellow deskmates below! 

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Reader Comments (2)

How about this?

You might learn something. There's something new and potentially valuable to learn from most everyone.

Also: You might save someone's life. You can turn a life around by recognizing that person as a fellow human being worthy of interest.
August 14, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterWorking Girl
m working in an MNC, after reading ur comments though i completely agree with you, i was wondring when a collegue is stranger to you wht r thebest possible ways to break the conversation?
February 6, 2008 | Unregistered Commenteralena

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