
Be Clear First and foremost, establish a clear and concise rationale to why you are saying no. Have the facts and figures, and reasons clearly outlined in your mind. You will increase the chances of your requested bring granted if you also offer up an alternative solution that is clearly better for everyone concerned. Timing Choose a time when you know your boss is more likely to listen to you, receptive and be open to discussion. So, if you know your have the type of boss that resembles a grizzly bear prior his second cup of coffee don’t jump on him as he enters the building first thing in the morning. Also, make sure you speak with him at a time when you have his full attention. It may be more daunting to ask to see your boss in their office but this way is more likely to get a chance to reason with them, whereas, trying to catch them while passing in the corridor will make it easier them to dismiss your request as they pass by. If, after all your efforts, the answer is still no, stay professional. Just because you didn’t achieve your aim, acting inappropriately will only jeopardize any future chances of being successful with something similar if it occurs again, and will reduce the opinion of you by your employer. You may at the time not feel like caring about this bit you might when you are looking for promotion. Is It a Sign that You Need to Change Jobs? If you are truly unhappy with the outcome, this may be the push you need to change jobs. It could be the kick you need to search for pastures new, or maybe even an exciting career change. Fundamentally, if you are being asked to do things in your job that you feel strongly you shouldn’t be doing, it is time to address if your job is really suitable for you. If you succeed in changing your bosses mind and your no is accepted, don’t brag. Showing off or acting like you “got one over the boss”, is ungracious, and likely to disappoint and anger them. They have taken and granted your request so it’s best to show appropriate appreciation and thanking them. Bio: Jen Smith is a Life Coach & Writer. She has tried many career paths herself and now helps people achieve their goals and dreams. |
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